Control is an illusion. If you think you can control everything all the time – you cannot.

There is always a bigger system at play. It’s better to learn to go with the flow, to change and be fluid. Yes, always stay focused but don’t just think that there is only one outlet. You can think “I would like this to happen,” but it might come in a different way. My tip for the day is to learn to go with the flow.

How do I know that you already go with the flow, even though you could be the biggest control freak in the world? When I got to think about this deeper, I came to the realization that we all already DO go with the flow and we don’t even realize it.

If you are driving in your car, you think you are in complete control. You have the gas and the break and the steering wheel, you can do whatever you want.  But what is the bigger system? The flow of traffic is. You are already going with the flow. You are just screaming bloody murder while going through it. It’s not going to help you at all. So just go with the flow. Sit and relax and realize “Ok, there is traffic coming, I have to stop.” People will cut you off all they want, you are only making yourself crazy.

Folks, we already go with the flow. Everyone preaches to go with the flow. But, do we realize that we are all already doing so? You just have to recognize it in every part of your life.

If you don’t like something in your life, change it.

If the road is blocked, you don’t have to settle for it. Take a detour, but don’t try to control it because you will drive yourself crazy.

Hopefully this helps, see you next time!